I have always thought he was just easy going. Turns out he was harbouring resentments, but never said and just let them build up.
Yeah, funny thing was she wasn't that easy going. She was opinionated and usually said exactly what she wanted, which is why I thought everything was okay. I guess that was until it came to conflict itself. Simple, dumb stuff but if I didn't agree with her position, we would talk through it, but then it seems like she would back down and then just tell me what I wanted to hear. Harboring the resentment of the 'compromise'
We had always talked through things that way in the past, but at some point this communication technique changed without me realizing it. Maybe it was kids or the A, I don't know.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)