During the WW visit yesterday she brought up marriage counseling. I was shocked!
Her therapist had suggested she give it a try. She has just started therapy, and has often stated that she has a lot to work on, so I was quite shocked.
I asked her if she thought she was ready for MC and she shook her head and started to cry. I told her I could wait until she was ready (I think it was a mistake to tell her I would wait).
While I'm not a mind reader I get the impression she still has no desire to come back to me. I also have no reason to believe she has ended any of her EA's, and I suspect her internet game addiction and spending are still out of control.
What I'm wondering is if there would be any value in attending an intro session or two with the right person. Could it help get things headed in the right direction? How much value can be had from MC with only one person wanting to save the marriage?
I have also thought, and spoken to Virginia, about the private sessions with Michele. While not in my budget, I would go into debt to have a chance to save my marriage. Would those be something to consider now? or should I wait until I have some signs that she actually wants to come back?
Me:43, WW:45 2 Kids: 21,22 Married: 23 Years Bomb: 01/2015 Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015 She left: 03/2015
