Yes, she thinks exactly that. I am not sure how your finances are set up for your money market account. Who earned that money? You? Her? Both? If she has contributed to it, you cannot deny her access. If she has not but you have, then yea, I would hesitate before giving her access as you are likely to never see it again. If both of you contributed to it, then set aside what each of you contributed and split it properly.
As for her insisting you just use her L....hahaha. I do get a chuckle off of that
Keep it up. You seem to be doing a good job.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16