This morning, W called 4.5 hours after shift supposedly ends (but her shift usually runs long). W tried calling twice and texting but I didn't hear phone while at zoo with kids. W said she wanted to talk with D4.
W asked D4 what she was doing and D4 told her she was at the zoo. Then W asked D4 who we were at the zoo with. D4 told her that we were with some family friends. D4 then told W she didn't want to talk with her. W seemed upset by this and asked me why D4 didn't want to talk with her. I told W that D4 was probably just distracted by the zoo.
I asked W if she was ok and she said that she was just tired. Then W asked if someone came over to my house last night. I told W that it was just me and the kids. (My hunch is that she asked this because I posted a picture to Instagram last night of me and D4 that I took with a timer on my iPhone). I then told W that I had to go because the kids were kind of rowdy. I told W that I hoped she got some rest.
W called again around 5pm to check in on kids and say hello. I told her about the kids day, W said my Instagram video was cool, but I kept it pretty brief on the phone, plus I could tell she was still tired.
W then called on her way into work to say goodnight to kids. I was laughing when W called and she asked me what was so funny. I told W that I was just playing with the kids. W talked with D4 a couple of times. As I was about to wish her a good night, W said she had a question.
W asked me for the password to the money market account (the account is in my name and I changed the password when all the drama started). W stated that we are in financial dire straits right now and we have a ton of bills that are coming in (our S1's emergency room bill, D4's school bill, and her L's retainer which W put on our Amex LOL). Plus, W said she needs it for the financial affidavit. I told W that I would have to look on my phone for the password later. W then told me again she thought it was a good idea to just use her L.
I could tell W was getting frustrated because the kids were getting loud in the background. I thanked W for being so good with the finances. W asked me to text her the account password again. I then moved towards ending the call and wished W a good and safe night at work.
I have no problem working out the family bills but I don't feel comfortable with W having the password right now. And I'm definitely not cool with using our family's money for her L. That's just crazy!
I think the best thing right now is for W and I to just sit down one night to work through the bills and we can divide up each party's share.
Then, to top it off, a few minutes ago, W texts me on some silly, unimportant work related topic. Does W really think that fifteen minutes after asking me to assist with a financial affidavit that I'm going to just carry on a silly text conversation with her?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
