That's exactly what I told her. I don't want to divorce but won't stand in her way. The second part was I cant be in an open marriage and if she continues the affair that's disrespecting me and I can't me her friend or in her life outside from talks about the boys. Now I show her that by going dark.
She filed so I can't kick her out of the house, it's her legal residence and she's no leaving. I don't want to vacate the home. Also with 2 sons here it's not like I can just be gone every night and miss time with them.
What else should I have done and better yet since I can't change the past, what can I do now? Feels like I screwed this up more than I thought
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
