My boundary was that I could not be her friend and all of our conversations would have to revolve around the boys. As long as she disrespects me by having the affair and there being another man, I won't interact like we're ok.
You said you told her you would not live in an open M. Now you saying something else. Which way did you tell her exactly?
Hi Rip,
You are most welcome. I just read your post and had the same question as Sandi.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15