My boundary was that I could not be her friend and all of our conversations would have to revolve around the boys. As long as she disrespects me by having the affair and there being another man, I won't interact like we're ok.
You said you told her you would not live in an open M. Now you saying something else. Which way did you tell her exactly?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
