I think you have a good attitude about your situation and some excellent points.
Hang in there and keep working on DB'ing if that's what you want.
You are stronger than you probably realize.
Regards,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15