Ripken - LRT with Wayward Wife and Divorce Filing

[Ripken8]

My boundary was that I could not be her friend and all of our conversations would have to revolve around the boys. As long as she disrespects me by having the affair and there being another man, I won't interact like we're ok. Based on my thread that was the action 3-4 vets had given me. My actions are to gal and leave her alone - easier said then done.

Right now I'm hurting and do want a chance to see if we would be able to work through the past hurt as we never did three years ago when we got back together. How she is right now is not the woman or what I want for the rest of my life, no. But like you said, once/if the affair ends and she respects me and notices changes, she could come back and marriages can survive affairs. Could that happen for us? I'm not sure, but right now, I'd like to try.

So knowing all of this, sandi anything else you think I can do? I realize my words or times to talk are done now. There's no point in anything else, just action.