Yes my H left me during the worst time of my life, but if he didn't I would still be on my path of destruction. This has snapped me out if it. I need to take care of me!!! I need to find my own happiness! I have to take control of my health and live! Lots to think about and figure out. Regardless of what happens, I will forever be grateful to him for doing that.
Hi Diana!
I am so happy that you had a great time and did not dump your motorcycle once. Woo hoo!
I am also happy you had a chance to meet up with your H, even if you feel like you did the wrong things. Can you give us one example?
Your comment about needing to take care of yourself is so, so true. Since I started doing that, I feel better about my sitch with my WAW, even though we are not any closer to reconciling. I did have some things to work on and will continue to. Most were (are) related to low self-esteem.
Take care.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
