I have the book to read through soon. Funny thing is that I have seen how easy it is to have an affair, as all I have done is stopped the very clear I am married and happy, to I may be interested when chatting with (eg mums at the school gate) I just look a little longer into their eyes and its amaizing how responsive they are. Not that I ever will.
It just shows me how if you want it, its there, and it doesnt realy mean anything as it just seems empty. I feel more and more sorry for my W, as Im sure she will not be happy, but I feel I have seen the light and am working very hard on ME :-)