So what did you do while everyone was having dinner?
I think you have missed the point in time to give her any speeches about you not living in an open M.
Personally, I believe you need to stop telling her you don't want a D. She gets it, okay? Truth is, she doesn't care what you want. She doesn't care that you won't live in an open M. What's your point in telling her now? She is getting a D, so giving her any conditions to a MR with you seems pretty bad timing, IMO.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
