Life, I'll answer this one question since it was asked so this gets back to being your thread.
I think your H fits in category one. Running away and vanishing is typical. Who would want to turn around and see the destruction they have caused.
I think it was Job that hit on the late at night thing. I think all MLC'ers have visits by their demons late into the night....I know I did!! The category 1's have a way of numbing it and then keep running.
It's been 5 + years since my EXW ran from me and our kids after a 24 year marriage and what I thought was a closenit family unit. I would label my journey bizarre, but then again I lived bizarre from the MLC side as well. I do have empathy for MLC'ers. It's not a mind you would want to visit.
