Mirage,

Don't mean to hijack LT but I have a question. The ones that runaway and practically vanish - Do you think it is b/c they are categories 1 or 2?

I want to stand for my marriage but honestly not sure if in reality H will ever find his way back. H walked out and still won't admit he is living with OW. He treats D's as detached as he treats me. It is bizarre.

Just wondering and sorry to hijack.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou