What I find so hard to do is to see the forest through the trees in my own situation. I suspect this is true for all of us who are going through this. It is easy to see what other people are doing and give advice and encouragement. But in my own case I question what I am doing and is it effective. I also question at times continuing. I feel that not only am I dealing with the ex, but also the negative influence of her family and even my own girls. I know they all think they are helping her and defending her, but don't realize the results will probably not be what they want.

Thanks job


Twisting on Life's Rope
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