I've been reading thru your thread, and don't have any big advice to offer right now (it's 11:00 PM and I'm tired) but I do agree with you that the advice your were given is "a lot to absorb."
One thing that comes to mind is to please do your best to find time to absorb the advice from karma12 and 25yearsmic. "25" has helped me very much, as have many others on this wonderful forum.
I posted this bible verse in several threads and people have seemed to really love it:
‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’” (Jeremiah 29:11).
It helps me feel hopeful.
Don't forget to take care of yourself.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
