It's a very difficult situation right now. So, it's about putting Toots first. There is nothing to think about your H. What he wants or does not want is not your problem. It's about what Toots wants.
You can always say that if he can't agree on selling the house, you are thinking about going back.
Toots, if you can afford to live well without the D, then wait a little longer, as you said, it will be a year in july.
I served the D papers because: 1. I can't survive with my pay alone. 2. I was afraid that H could put a lot of extra charges on our CC spending extra w/OW, I would be responsible for those charges as well. 3. We can separate our finances and I can move forward with my life without fear.
If you don't have any trouble waiting, then what is the rush, maybe it is just the feeling. I am in this kind of cycle too, time is going by and nothing really happen.
Remember that if he is some kind of MLC, it may take 1year or 1 and a half year.
The only thing is that you guys don't have much interaction. Is there any possible way to have some coincidence? Some way to test the waters and find out where he is at now?
Besides, you sound good. You seem to always have a good head on top of your neck and that is admirable. I hope you feel a little more at peace, but I totally understand since we are going through the same time line in our sitches.
Dance poll... That's one I never tried. I think it's a bit hard tough. Let's us know how that goes.
