Thanks, all. Having a rough one. At party today and got news my grandmother passed. It was expected. Also that I have not been invited to a mutual friend's engagement party and STBX has been. She is the only friend that seems to be in his corner, and this feels painful to me. I wish it didn't. So many of our friends will be there. Thus wasn't expected.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on