When is kindness enough?

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I don't have Facebook, I never wanted to.
Last October, when my M was going down the roller-coaster, my W and I would share the computer.
One time, she left her Facebook page open and I read a conversation with a friend where she was explaining the friend the ILYBINILWY.
I got obsessed for several weeks and started spying all she did online.
I even bought a professional keylogger program.
This program never worked properly because I had previously installed an anti-keylogger and had forgotten about it.
Fortunately am I am too geek even for my taste.
Well, I am not proud of what I did and after finding this forum and reading Sandi2 rules (rule n.º 10) I completely erased the program.
Today, I was with a friend who is friends with my W. The friend asked me if I wanted to read a funny message my W had posted.
I said I was not interested.
And really I was not.
Facebook is my wife's thing, not mine. The person I am today doesn't feel any motivation or need to read what she posts.
She is one, I am another.
We are not a couple.
She is living her life, I am living mine.
It just happens we are living under the same roof (and sharing the same bed).
My detachment might take me too far, I fear.
I might cross the point of no return.

PS - I have just decided to give to charity the same amount of money the program cost me. This way my espionage action might help someone for a change.