Thanks Edz and V. Edz, I would consider renting. I haven't suggested that to H at this point. He has a negative thing about renting and I suspect he wouldn't want to...but I'll bear it in mind and see how things go.

You're right V. It doesn't matter all that much if the house stays emptyish for a short while - as long as things are looked after. I've decided to go up there on Monday and collect puss. I'm looking forward to having her here. I'm not really looking forward to visiting our MH. Last time I went, it was horrible. I had been erased, and I snooped and discovered text for email to OW professing love - which was horrible.

But, it has to be done. Quietish day today. I shopped this morning and volunteered at the bookstore this afternoon. Then a quiet evening in, watching period drama - my favourite - and H was always scathing about them. Sometimes it's nice to be able to do your own thing! My interview is confirmed for Thursday - so I'd better do a bit of work for that next week. Don't want to be caught out by any curve ball questions!

Have a nice evening all xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus