Ok. I think whatever want on is over. He lives on the opposite coast from us so I don't believe there was anything physical. She says she has not talked to him since I found out. I don't know if she's playing with words but she may have contacted him by Facebook message. I am trying to monitor her computer but that is difficult. She could have email accounts I know nothing of. So far I have found nothing. She seems to be coming back around but is still somewhat distant. She sleeps in a different bedroom, says it's because I snore, but I'm not so sure. She used to always want for us to take a vacation together, no kids, just us. Now when I bring up vacation she immediately mentions bringing the kids. We are not intimate at all. We hug, smooch and that's it. I am trying to back off
