Hi Koalada, it's common for people to be final with their decision. And of course the more we push, the more they feel the need to defend, and the more final it gets.

I would just keep your eyes and ears open in terms of possible OM, because the DB approach does change if there's an OP on the scene.

Certainly the rule is valid, but it's - don't believe anything she says and only 50% of what she does...

In terms of communication, I would respond briefly and pleasantly, but have your own plans and don't linger with her. And don't initiate R talks. If she has said she wants to D, you are in LRT I would say. Maybe go back and have a look at that content in the books...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus