Wayward Wife and the Way of LRT Pt. 2

[Defacto]

Journaling:

Quick recap of yesterday. W called me after her work shift. I let it go to voicemail because I was talking with MIL. Immediately after calling me, W calls MIL, who tells W that she was talking with me.

Ten minutes later W calls me back. I answer. Talk briefly about kids and future camping trip plans I have with D4. I keep it brief and wish W a good day.

In the afternoon, W texts to tell me that she bought (lease) a new car because she couldn't afford the payments of her old car and now the car payments wouldn't deduct from my checking account anymore.

I replied "Cool! What'd you get?"

W responded with the type of car and mentioned the features the car had that would benefit the kids.

I replied "That's great!"

W had mentioned wanting to trade in car before. Interesting that she does it now but no big deal.

Had another good day at work and go to my discussion group Friday night.

W texts me a funny quote from D4. I don't respond. A half an hour later, W calls me and said she was worried because I didn't reply to text.

I told W I was doing great. W asked if I was having fun. I then asked about kids and I talked about tomorrow's plans for the child exchange. W then asked me if I was ok. I replied by saying I was doing great. She asked the question again later in the call and I replied the same. (Not sure why she felt the need to ask this question twice. I felt that I was carefree on the phone. Oh well, won't try to mindread.)
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A month after BD, I reached out to an exgirlfriend because I was feeling insecure. We texted back and forth a bit but that's it. W did question me about it a few months ago and I admitted that I talked with ex but that was it. I have since tapered off communication with ex just because I realized my motives were questionable and I didn't want to jeopardize possible MR reconciliation. Now, the exgirlfriend is a member of this discussion group and I saw her again last night. I have no feelings for ex and no intention of anything happening between us.

I feel like it's not my problem if W is suspicious about me and ex. W hasn't really mentioned it in a while and I haven't done anything wrong. Any thoughts?