W and I are eating dinner and she says she needs to ask me a question. She asks me if I think older S that is staying with us is doing drugs.( He has a new job and the kid he works with has been known to smoke a little). She said she has noticed him come home a few times and his eyes were glazed over. When she asked him about it, he said it was because he was working in the sun all day. I told her, that I wasn't sure but I had noticed that also. I told her that if I find out he is or if I suspect it, he will be staying somewhere else. Boundary of mine. He has a choice, just say no or stay somewhere else.
So she starts in on how she hates it when someone tries to deny something when everything they are doing makes them look guilty. She said " I wasn't born yesterday, if it looks like he is guilty, he probably is". While she was saying this, she kinda stopped half way through, like it just hit her like a ton of bricks that I had said the same thing to her so many times the past 9 months. All I said was " I know what you mean". And than I practiced my STFU!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
