Sorry you are here but you will meet some wonderful people here and get some great advice.
I am a LBH and you will find so much great guidance on this forum. My W and I are still separated but I haven't given up hope. Why? First of all, I love my wife. Second, the great people on this forum.
To get the most out of it, I suggest trying to post as often as you can and check in on other people's situations.
Sandi is one of the absolute best of the best in our "family" here.
Please, please follow Sandi's advice.
I wish you well.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15