Thanks Dawn and Toots. I appreciate the comments.

Question for group:

I've been feeling very disappointed the last couple of days with my WW's behavior over the last few months, more so than usual. It's getting close to that time of the week when she starts asking to pop in for a bit. I'm thinking of telling her to skip coming by this week. I really don't want to see her right now.

Should I tell her I'm busy? Should I tell her I just need some space and don't want to see her? Or should I suck it up and act 'as if' everything is great with me? The last option gives her some visibility into the "everything is cool here and I'm moving on. Look at all my good changes" mentality.

Thanks for your thoughts.


Me:43, WW:45
2 Kids: 21,22
Married: 23 Years
Bomb: 01/2015
Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015
She left: 03/2015