I gotcha Diana. Just make sure your are being truthful to yourself that you are concerned about his taking things which he may not be entitled to vs your desire to see him and show him your progress. I dont mean to doubt you but I know how strong the desire can be to want to have some interaction with our spouses. Ask yourself will your presence at the home help or hurt your ultimate goal. Is there a risk for conflict? A risk of coming across as pursuing? Again, by all means protect your property. Heck, even have a friend over at the time if necessary.
Good luck!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16