drop the rope- part II

[Bob723]

I hate myself for part of me thinking that she could be capable of such deception. I have read enough of these forums and so many others, with so many LBS's who thought thier spouses would never be capable of such a betrayal.

Hi Zephyr,

I've been trying to catch up with your situation. I don't believe I've posted a reply on your thread -- until now.

Please don't hate yourself, I feel the same way about my WAW, and hated myself, too. I felt betrayed, deceived and plain old stupid. After a while, I realzied that thinking this way was not going to help me detach and GAL. I spent too much energy being mad at myself.

It seems like you've received some great advice from many people.

Don't give up hope! I wish you well.

Take care.

Bob