Feeling a bit Bleugh about H at the moment, and not that positive about our sitch. Not that down in myself, but not optimistic about 'us.' Logically I know anything can and does happen, but it's not always easy to stay positive about what 'is' happening.
This. Exactly this. Toots. So hard to stay positive when there is so little contact.
I see you are thinking about filing yourself. What would that achieve? Would that signal the end to you? How would that align with your previous message that "D is not what you want"?
If I am reading things right, then your and my H will have difficulty filing as they won't want to be the ones who officially end it. We're eligible to file in a couple of weeks. I doubt my H will (but then I once doubted that he would leave me so....)
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
