Thank you for the support. It does help tremendously to know that I'm not alone in my struggles!
Hi Diana,
You're welcome, I love helping others. It brings me joy. You are not alone in your struggles -- we on this forum are like one giant family.
As I think you know, my WAW has MS and other medical issues. The main thing I did wrong in her eyes is become "smothering." Looking back, I can see how it came across like that to her. (I've probably written this several times in my thread.)
What song do I hear on the radio coming home from work tonight? Wild Horses by the Rolling Stones.
This verse really hits home for me:
"I watched you suffer a dull aching pain Now you've decided to show me the same No sweeping exit or offstage lines Could make me feel bitter or treat you unkind Wild horses couldn't drag me away"
I bring this up because I still love my wife very much and I have some bad days but I'm getting stronger little by little. Somehow, we will all make it through these rough times including you! Whether our M is saved or not, we will become better people. Keep working on yourself to be the "Best Diana" you can be. You can do this!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
