But there is hope. Healing is a day-to-day process and that is what I'm going thru right now. Our D is not final, but things don't look good.
Thank you Bob. It is so nice when simple truths like that can quite literally put air back into your lungs. Thanks for helping me when you're in such a hard place of your own.
You're welcome, RealMe! I know what you mean. I have had others post "simple truths" and it does seem to put air back into your lungs!
And, our friend MrBond is all over it again: "This is actually a good sign. And the way you handled it was great."
If I disagreed with MrBond, I would say so. RealMe, he's GOOD. The reason it is a good sign that she got argumentative is that it shows she still has some feelings for you. I'm sure you've heard that hate is the opposite of love. When our WAS is apathetic, then there may be no hope for the M.
You did handle the situation well. A small step forward but keep it up!
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
