Continuing DBing

[u-turn]

I understand the desire to not be the one to "ruin" the big event, but is it really that - this is response a to her actions - you have been patient.

I have run into this - extension after extension until now I am exhausted of working this way.

Deadlines and extensions:
work stress - one more month
kids out of school - one more month
wait until the kids get back into school - two more months
death in family - two more months
holidays may make it better - two more months
dui/arrest/court - two more months
Now the kids will be getting out of school again - and yeesh another year of waiting.

I have a feeling this is how life will go and this will continue as an infinite pattern unless it is stopped and she probably will not be the one to do it.

I am here with you - it is a way to perpetuate their A or at least leaving their options open. I feel like if she is in, she should be in - right now - the waiting time has not done anything.