Ummmmmmmm the divorce is only messy if she decides to make it that way.

You don't want to "sour" something for her? Ummm well I guess she didn't care about "souring" your year or so with an affair.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction