I agree that she doesn't see that deadline the same way I do. She doesn't know that after the wedding I'll give her one more opportunity to recommit. If she doesn't then I'll start D proceedings.

I would have liked to do it 2 months ago, but the whole wedding thing made me a little compassionate toward her as it's her only daughter and a big thing in her life, and I know a messy D would sour the whole experience for her. So I told her I wouldn't bring it up again until after the wedding.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014