This will hopefully help you get yourself together. It is so tough with young children though - I'm sure.

Those things: house, friends; they will be a savior for you - I have let some things go in the house partially because of the unsure path of my situation - knowing that you will be staying gives you a great opportunity to make it yours. Repairing and improving is a great boost for yourself too.

I have read through your story and I really feel for you. I understand the conflicting feelings that you have with looking forward to separating, but still thinking of the forever you were planning - I get it.


Good luck!


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015