Seems that I'm always giving in to her and I'll do about 75% of the 180s than I blow it again by asking to put this behind us.
Second, read Divorce Remedy.
Third, move away from next door to her!
Fourth, lose the fear.
Fifth, everything in the below quote is so wrong.
Quote:
The biggest fear I have is losing my wife and she starts seeing other people right next door to me. Today she finally told me she was breaking through a tm and she was so angry I believed that to be a good thing that she was starting to realize her actions. I believe she may have seen the significant changes that I've made and she doesent want to admit that she wants to work things out. I just can't knock down that stupid wall.
Please read Divorce Remedy, and in the meantime, read the threads Cadet posted in his welcome to you.
I hope you'll stick with us b/c I can see you have the typical LBH's mindset. I just hope we can knock your wall down. (JK)
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
