My guts tell me, that an OM is somewhere and that she is looking for reasons to justify the D. Should I think about this sitch more or should I be less conversational the next time? Tough love? Any concrete ideas for upcoming conversations? Should I care about my guts? That I think she is not honest to me and just wants me to help her to end this M without a lot of trouble?

Am I too dumb to understand her POV? If she is not honest to me, I have no desire to talk to her again.

Last edited by koalada; 04/24/15 07:17 PM.
Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out