Fogg - That's a good point. She does not want me back. She has been clear about that. I keep DBing and trying to be focused on saving the M. Why? If she asks me what she can do to earn my trust, I will ask why.
Mozza - I'm not doing a good job projecting that I'll be okay without her. She's not guessing. I know that I'm trying to friend her back into the M. It's not working. I felt that I had to tell her something. It was a NG move from me. I didn't want to rock the boat by being honest.
My coach instructed me to focus on 180s that showed her we do have a connection and I was not as detached from our relationship as she thought I was. He even commented that it was a bit different LRT. It was very successful in the beginning. We really did start to reconnect. Her connection to the OM is still too strong and her focus is with him now.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15
