WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

Wow this is a lot to absorb. The responses especially you 25Yearsmic and Karma12 - are truly answers to my prayers for wisdom.

Focusing on my work and home life right now.

Looks like if I want to hire an attorney of my own for this whole deal, I'm going to be in to it for at least a couple thousand dollars, of which I want to spend exactly zero.

My wife has told me that she won't go after me for any more assets than those she has already left here with, but the divorce takes 90 days and if I don't respond within 16 days from now, I am going to waive all right to respond any further. Ugh.

If only I could know that she means what she says and won't try to take anything that's not hers.

Thank you 25yearsmic again for taking the time to provide your insights. I hope to be able to answer some of your questions in a future post. Like my bomb drop date which was Feb 23, 15.