I'm sorry you find yourself here and I'll be honest-I haven't read your threat. However, from this question, I agree with Cadet. I understand that you don't want your child to hurt (trust me-many of us completely relate to that feeling). However, your h's r with your child is his and vice versa. There is nothing for you to do IMHO.
In regards to OW, talking about that will not yield results that you are hoping for. Why not go dim regardless? You should limit chats to necessities at this juncture anyway.
Hang in there!
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 04/24/1504:38 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer