Cadet, yes, I read the pursuit and distance article and am doing my best to follow that. I am definitely not pursuing.
I will keep my plans with my friends and family.
Any ideas on next steps with her relative to the EA with OM and/or a reconciliation talk? Do I just wait and let her bring those things up?
What if she wants more affection (kisses, hugs, holding hands)? It would feel good, but am I better off keeping distance there? Perhaps not offer my hand, or offer my hug, but if she initiates then I return?
