I'd been noticing little changes all week, like my wife being nicer to me, opening up a little bit, wanting to do family things etc.
But today wow. She told me she loved me and then asked if I wanted a kiss. (it's been weeks since she said this). I was taken aback and told her I loved her too and did give her a kiss as we both left for work. I hope I didn't mess this up.
As an aside it is my birthday tomorrow so I'm a little cautious about that. I plan to continue to detach by going out with friends and family for my birthday. I had made these plans weeks ago.
I could really use some advice though on what my next steps are with my wife. She hasn't specifically said that she wants to reconcile nor has she brought up the EA with the OM. Do I probe these points or do I follow as the 180 says and not bring them up?
