Isn't the fact that he doesn't reach out to me a sign that he's lost to me? He said he wanted to think for a few days, and that he hadn't decided that he didn't want to be with me. But could this absolute no contact be a way for him to just try and let it all fizzle out?
No! He said he needed time and he's taking it....let him have it. I'm no expert for sure but take this time to work on you. What is there about you that need to change? What are some things you really want to do? Easier said than done for sure, but now is the time to put your focus on you, not him.
I'm better at giving advice than heeding my own...but Cadet says it in every intro:
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Your H or W is giving you a GIFT. THE GIFT OF TIME. USE it wisely.
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
