Another WW/WAW, Need Guidance

[JAS84]

Thanks u-turn, that means a lot. I know I can do this. I know that it will be difficult at times, and easier at others.

I am having the most trouble with really detaching, and dropping expectations. I have already begun making plans to make my house my own, and fixing up things that have gone by the wayside over the years.

Outside of the house, I have a great group of friends (though most are near the place W is moving to, 30 min+ away), am no longer afraid to go places by myself, and I have good physical outlets with walks in the park and going to the gym.