I would not harp on it. Both sets of parents most likely want you two to work it out and since you are their children they sometimes feel obligated to intervene. I doubt any good ever comes of it as a WW does not want encouragement to work on the marriage but wants validation for the choices she is making. Most parents do not usually support infidelity on the part of their children so her parents are most likely out of the loop anyways. My W def spewed venom at both of our families as they tried to "help"
Not your fault. Just take it as it is and keep moving on.
Pilot, thanks for the encouragement. I quickly realized that whatever was said between the mothers was truly a minor thing compared to the scope of all this.
I simply spent the rest of my night playing with D4 and everything settled into its right place.
Later that night, W texted to check on kids. I replied that they were wonderful. W replied by thanking me for being such a good dad.
Have a great Friday! Thanks for all your thoughts, prayers, and support.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15