Long story short separated but living together, married 18 years, separated 14 weeks do to feeling resentment from neglect.

Keeps saying she needs space and time.
Last week wife book a trip for her and two kids without asking or discussing with me I confronted her she got upset and said I'm not asking your permission to go on vacation with our kids. I said ok, she's like what.

I said ok I understand when can do what ever we want without discussing. So yesterday I took our son to my job for couple hours, it was bring your child to work day.

She texted me from other room last night wondering why I didn't tell her I was taking him to work.

She mentioned D other day during argument over her vacation. Don't want to be a doormat but also don't want to push over edge.

Last edited by Cadet; 04/24/15 09:18 AM. Reason: Carriage returns for readability
both 40
kids 15 and 10