You are getting some great advice from vets on your thread. Follow the DB principles. I was a young wayward once. She needs space to breath and learn what life without you feels like. Plus she most likely has an interest if not an affair. He wanting you to date is really to make her feel less guilty. Best you can do it to keep GAL. She will sense when you are moving on in your own life. She will find that single life is not fun for long. You want to be the safe place to land. Not the guy that has know life sitting around waiting.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.