I will heed the advice of those who are smarter than I am in these matters, and not do anything for Mothers Day. I will feel guilty, but want to do what's best for my sitch.

Right now, neither one of us is communicating with the other, and we have no kids together. I am assuming that detachment in this case consists of ignoring and not initiating conversation.

If by some miracle she contacts me, I will respond in a detached, yet cordial, manner.

Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15