No news on my front. Just wondering more and more why W wants aD so bad. Actually she didn't mention it in a while, but I'm sure she's on track.
Yesterday W asked me to go to her grandma for dinner spontaneously. I was hungry so I said yes, enthusiastically lol.
Her dad was there. Nice conversations. I like them, they like me, old story. Things are just like very friendly.
Really makes me scratch my head.

In the meantime I'm continuing with all my activities etc. Didn't go on a date again with OW, although it seems like she wants to. I just explained that my situation is not the best for anything close to serious.
This whole thing is not really of any concern right now. I think I need to focus a little more on myself again.

And I caught a virus and am in bed coughing and sneezing wink

That was my blogging for now.
Would be nice if anyone here experienced the same, that the friendly R with W went that way and what does this mean? Is this common? Don't want to get more hope but it's just weird to see and if she filed for D etc, it'd just be like "what a fool you are, but ok what am I gonna do?". If this decent behavior continues tho it might make things harder for me in the end, or I might get tempted to throw some more energy in saving my M...any thoughts?


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15