It's so calm around here it's unnerving. W has been respectful and seems to be serious about the temp NC she has self imposed. She has been much more affectionate, which I don't mind. I worry about cake eating. I do like cake though.
I'm feeling much better because she seems to have at least poked her head out of the fog. At least she understands that she has responsibilities with the house and kids.
She made dinner reservations for us this weekend. I suggested maybe another time, we have too much work to do. She asked me why I wanted to cancel and to be honest. I told her I felt like it was a "date night" and didn't feel up for something like that right now. She got a bit upset that I didn't feel like going on a date with her. I'm really trying to be more honest and direct. I don't know if that was the best response though. Still, I would rather pay the price and deal with any repercussions from honesty then to let my resentment build.
It's almost our 10 yr anniversary. I have plans to go out of town that weekend to see a friend. Haven't said anything to W about it because it hadn't come up. I don't think I should unless there's a reason. Could not saying something be considered passive aggressive? Could it be seen as a chance for he to get with OM?
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15
